The answer is that the best school is the one which suits your child's needs and your needs best. Finding the answer to that seemly simple question involves a process of identifying, evaluating and visiting schools. While it's certainly true that Exeter is one of the top schools in the world, what does that matter if it's the wrong fit for your child and, more importantly, your child doesn't stand a snowball's chance in hell of getting into Exeter because it is so highly competitive.

The process of identifying the right school for your child is one thing. The actual mechanics of interviewing, taking admissions tests and apply are quite another. Not to worry! I will guide you through it.

Every parent should complete the financial aid forms.Depending on your financial situation a variety of options are available. Most schools offer scholarships so that families which otherwise might not be able to afford a private education can do so.

While most parents begin the admissions process a year or so in advance, many have no choice but to find a school at the last minute. The truth is that every school has unexpected places to fill. It's always worth a call to an educational consultant who will have a pretty good idea of which schools might have a place or two open.

Over the years I have watched the gestation and birth of dozens of private schools. It is exciting to see parents and teachers realize their dreams.

Accreditation is the educational equivalent of the Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval. There are several nationally recognized accrediting organizations together with many organizations which claim to grant accreditatioon

Deciding which school is right for you and your child involves identifying schools which suits your needs.

Once upon a time they were. Fortunately private schools have moved with the times.

Of course you can. But I don't recommend doing it. Been there. Done that. It's just not worth it. Too much is at stake.

Don't pester the schools! If your child has been rejected or wait listed at all the schools to which he applied, then you must consider your other options. Calling the school to let them know of your continued interest is a good idea. But don't pester them. Let the admissions process run its course. You will know definitively within a few weeks whether he will be accepted.